What is it when you can talk to someone about anything, have a great time doing nothing with them and you have an incredible, intense, unexplainable intimacy that only gets better with time. Is that compatability or chemistry?
You need compatability to be friends and chemistry to be lovers. You need both to have a best friend and lover in the same person.
Chemistry draws us back to a person even when we are angry. Friendship makes us glad we got over the difference. Mutal respect creates compatability..compatability nourishes chemistry...and sustains it.
Chemistry may not define a relationship or make a long term relationship stand..but lack of it can surely break one.
Chemistry is an illusive quality ,as difficult as it may be to define, it can be just as simple. Yet to some of us it canbe a mystery. If one possesses the ability to listen to their instincts, the answer is simple.....
But what if they are not listening....
Edified,
Jai
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
Nice topic ... luv it when you speak this way.
ReplyDeleteOne of the best feelings we can have is being "comfortable in our own skin" , feeling safe & secure in a peaceful, loving, and mutually satisfying relationship, as both friends and lovers.
As you say, "...Is that compatability or chemistry?"... it seems both are so necessary, but foremost "what if they are not listening...."
- I pray to not miss out on that special someone... not listening.